Ask the INTJ: How Do I Appear More Charismatic and Likeable?
Hello!! The INTJ is back!! Today, I'm a posting an answer to FAQ's that friends and readers have asked me. Let's begin! We'll call this series: Ask the INTJ. ________________________________________________________________________ Dear INTJ, How do I appear more charismatic and likeable? I'm a hardcore INTJ. Sometimes, I get these vibes from people as if they dislike me. But it's inconvenient when I need the other person to work together with me on projects and such. Thanks, -S.H.Y. INTJ ________________________________________________________________________ Dear S.H.Y. INTJ, Interesting question and no worries! INTJs can be quite shy and appear emotionless or distant. The other party mistakes it for dislike or arrogance. Here are some tips that might help: 1) Smile. I know INTJ's sometimes forget to smile especially when we're lost in our thoughts while analyzing the situation. 2) Notice something good about the other and compliment them on it. Switch away from skeptical, discerning mode. 3) Go with the flow and talk out aloud about your thoughts on the project or what you think of their ideas. It lets them know that you're taking their ideas into consideration. Sincerely, the INTJ |